First, keep in mind that it's called a"happening" which means that it is an event that will pass. If it has already "happened", it is now considered the past and we can't dwell there. And if you're worried about future events, well, that may or may not be as drastic as you are imagining it to be. Regardless of what stage you're in right now, you can flip the lens on that issue and start worrying less! Sign up for FREE tips on how to master your life circumstances, sent straight to your email!.